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Date: 09 Sep 2003
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This is normal if it is your first time, especially if it was quick. I am guessing that he was a little rough in that short time. I had bleeding the first time I did it anal, but it was from the same reason that he was a little rough. Since then I have learned to do it and get much pleasure from it. It's important to use lots of lube and make sure he does it nice and slow until you can get used to it. Also, be sure to relax and try to enjoy it because when you tense up your anus also tenses up, thus making it painful and perhaps tearing tissue inside. He might like it that way but if you're hurting it's not worth it. It's not just about him, it's about the both of you. It should be pleasurable for both of you. As for now, relax and don't have anal sex for awhile. Take a warm bath to help sooth the area and don't use any kind of harsh soaps with fragrence. That might irritate the area. Give it time to heal and try when you're ready. Just remember the lube and it'll be a lot more enjoyable.